[OT rude or not, a different opinion] -Re: Beta 8.10 released

[Ignazio Palmisano]

Emanoil Kotsev wrote:
> 
> --- On Sat, 10/11/08, Ignazio Palmisano <ignazio_io at yahoo.it> wrote:

>> I agree with you, it might not show in my recent emails but
>> that's what 
>> I usually do (on other mailing lists, I'm nowhere
>> knowledgeable enough 
>> to help much on this list). What ticked me off was the
>> *perception* that 
>> the discussion was going from technical and/or a matter of
>> taste to more 
>>   personal statements (not directed at me, but then, what
>> can I say... 
>> sorry for the noise :)).
>> I.
>>
> 
> I want to put  a point to this discussion from my side. I am pretty self confident person and I know that I'm not rude, may be too direct or abit too rough. Anyway I think it was/is a good discussion.
> If you still don't get the point :-) it's your problem. If you are affected by the question it's your problem. If you think I'm attacking you personally, it's your problem. In fact it's always the choice or the abillity of the hearer to interpret and understand some statement and the speaker can not imagin how a hearer would interpret something.
> 

:D this is funny, a dear friend of mine was using exactly the same words 
no more than a week ago. He describes himself in the same terms you use 
here, and you both are right in a sense, and wrong in another. It is not 
your problem if the communication does not work only if you are not 
interested in the communication to work. In a sense, you catch more 
flies with a drop of honey that with a liter of vinegar.
(just a funny story, I don't want to rehash discussions)

I.