infrared

[Haldor Riddering]

Okay got most things to work on my laptop, but would really love to get 
the infrared working so I can move pictures from my mobile (panasonic 
x200) to a folder on the computer (asus A2500H)
have installed gsm-utils, irda-utils, obexftp
but using it under a terminal gets these results:

haldor at laptop:~$ irxfer
Send files to and receive files from win95
Waiting for files

just waits and waits, but phone says there is no connection and fails.

haldor at laptop:~$ irxfer bob.jpg
Send files to and receive files from win95
Sorry, unable to connect!
haldor at laptop:~$

is there a module I should be loading in order to make this work?

thanks for any suggestions.
it's basically the last thing on my list to get completed then it's all go

Haldor